The ‘Feel-Good’ Formula

Let me tell one thing which is very very important. Don’t ever go and ask a girl for tips. They don’t know it themselves and they often end up confusing you. Like I already said, their language is something different which is not easily understood by men. Some women won’t agree with certain things mentioned here. That’s because their interpretation is different. So don’t ever follow what a girl tells you.

The entire society is so damn wussified that it has reached the heights of desperation. This will only ruin your chances with women. If you turn out to be a needy person, women would definitely lose interest in you. Don’t ever think that you don’t have a girl to hang out with… the more the thought, the needier you become. When women are around you do what is required and enjoy, else enjoy the rest. Don’t think about it, or complain. Life is short, enjoy every bit of it. Don’t waste time thinking about something you don’t have at present, you will surely get it sometime.

No loser statements!

Some guys know that they have always sucked with women. They give out loser statements like ‘I am proud to be single’ etc. saying this is hammering into women’s head that you are a loser; you have always sucked with women. A guy who is really proud to be single will never say it. So don’t think you are one big macho and if you were to leave such statements women would think you are hard to get and will fall for you.

Make a girl feel good.

Always make a girl feel good when you are around. You shouldn’t work to get her, or pick her up but always work to make her feel good. She should have enjoyed every moment with you, every single moment. Maybe when she gets back home, she should recollect every good thing you said. She should be telling her friend that you were a ‘nice’ guy. Again nice doesn’t mean that you did whatever she asked you to. Nice meaning you came off as an interesting person to her. Make her laugh her ass off. Its only when she laughs, her defense mechanism is at bay.

Erase the idea of hitting on women.

The thought of picking up women makes one work for something. You have your target set, that you need to take her phone number today. When the target is set, you start working to achieve your goal. So eventually you end up working to get the woman. This guarantees failure. Just make sure she feels good when she is around, nothing else is expected out of you. Don’t keep bugging her and especially sarcasm, works at times but not always. Don’t be sarcastic with every sentence you say, it will become predictable. If something doesn’t happen forget it. Getting her number, email etc must happen naturally. If it doesn’t happen fine, go ahead. There are many more women waiting for you to make them feel good, move on.

Women don’t think they feel it, I say this quite often. You should have made them feel good about you. This is how the ‘feel good’ formula works. Do leave your comments only in the HASH OUT page. I shall talk about what you shouldn’t do in my next post. Actions that would instantly make women lose interest in you. Until later, have fun.

Cheers,
Natty Boy