Steps

1.Tell your wife that you have been seconded to work on a major project this summer and there is no way that you can get out of it or you will lose your job.

2.But you will foot the bill for her and the kids to take a 3 week vacation somewhere real far like the Bahamas, sure she can bring her parents along as well.

3.You convince your friend John that you guys should take a 'guys only' holiday in September so he needs to save his holidays- just this once even though his wife is not at all happy about it. Tell him to show her who boss is

4.When your wife and kids go on summer holiday, you convince your boss to let you work from home for 3 weeks to look after the kids because your wife had to go off with her parents on important family business

5.Once the coast is clear and your friend is at work and your family away, pop over to your friend's wife place just to invite her for a cup of coffee and a chat, because she looks a bit down.

6.She will confide in you about her anger at not going on hols, sympathize with her and say what a selfish guy John is and promise her not to tell him that you said that.

7.Over the next few days pop over her place and invite her over to yours, she will get the message.

8.The next week bring up sexually oriented conversation subtley, see how she reacts, if she goes with it , then she is now hot for some illicit cheating sex

9.The next day, pop over when the coast is clear and start to make your move.

10.By Friday you will be putting a hot secret smile on her face all day, if your friend only knew how much you put yourself out to save his marriage!!

Tips

Only make your advances if she gives you a clear indication that she knows what is on your mind

Warnings

Only make your advances if she give you a clear indication that she knows what is on your mind and use a condom!!