Finding A Bride

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Soft light, champagne, chocolate, quiet romantic music – these are really excellent ways to make a positive impression on a girl. Unfortunately, they are totally inconvenient when you communicate virtually. Today we’ll learn what you should do and how you should behave to make a lady interested in you.

Everyone knows that virtual communication is fulfilled by means of correspondence – either by e-mail or in the chat located at BridesService. That’s why it’s no good to rely on personal charm or, all the more, your appearance. Even if you are a really lavish and handsome man, it won’t help you during the correspondence period. All you’ve got left is the sense of humour, intelligence, and personal originality – that’s what you will have to express with the help of dull chat letters.

First of all, try to avoid using clich?s and stock phrases. It’s a great mistake to begin the talk with plain, “Hey, how’re you doing?” 90% of men do it like this – so you better not.

All ladies are different, so there’s a unique way to approach each of them. That’s why you should study the girl’s form and photo before trying to get acquainted with her. The form will tell you the basic info about her – the age, her body shape, her hobbies and interests, priorities in life, whether she has got children or not, the reason why she wants to get acquainted, and much more.

Take proper account of all this info when you communicate with a lady and, especially, when you address her for the very first time. For example, if a girl is a little plump, it’d be good to notice something like this: “When I saw your picture, I just couldn’t stop myself from talking to you! Girls with a body like yours are the most beautiful!”

If she stated in her form that she loves Japanese cuisine, you can take her aback right away: “Is sushi as tasty as people say it to be? I haven’t dared to taste it yet. What kind should I start with? :)” Bingo! Now you have a good topic for discussion.

Women of different ages definitely need to be treated differently. That’s why if the lady you chose to speak with is mature, she will probably like it if you address her politely and respectfully: “Madam, would you please let me address you…”

Be a little slyer and more perspicacious than the others. If a lady states that she’s looking for a man to start a family with, try to behave as a mature, reliable person, and on the other hand, if all she wants is a little affair, just offer her a romantic adventure in a beautiful place.

Russian ladies don’t like vulgarity, so all talk about sex should be discreet. You’d better even wait until she touches upon this topic herself – which will definitely happen as your contact develops. Try to sound a bit eccentric because there’s nothing worse than talking with a bore.

“Have you ever been to New Guinea?”
“No, never”.
“Neither have I. Looks like we’ve got a lot in common!”
Interesting? Yeah!

However, the main thing is to be yourself! Nothing brings people close to each other better than honesty and fairness.

Search

At last you are a member of BridesService. You’ve got access to a huge form and image database. All ladies are different but they’ve got one thing in common – all of them are here to find romance. They are always happy to get acquainted with someone but all of them are looking for different people. Maybe you are a perfect match for them or maybe you are not. So you’d better not write to too many of them right away – this is one of the most common mistakes which not only wastes your precious time but may also lead to much disappointment.

Let us give you some advice on how to make the search of your darling with the help of our agency really easy and effective.

Before starting to look, you should put your own form in order. It will make further search and communication a lot easier. Take your time to fill in the form carefully. There are no unimportant questions – everything has its own sense. Your age, physical parameters, preferences, plans for the future, education, religion – make sure that you don’t miss anything. Stating the languages you can speak is a really important thing too. Don’t forget to write whether you are married or not and whether you have children or not. Necessarily state the age interval that the lady you’re looking for should fit. The fields under the headings: “More about me” and “My perception of an ideal relationship” are incredibly important – moreover, they usually are the key ones. Don’t be too lazy to describe yourself in an individual manner and don’t forget to make your form available for search.

Photo. Posting a photo (or even several photos) is necessary. Try to choose interesting pictures – the ones where you look interesting and are in a good mood. Statistics show that joyful people attract much more attention.

If you do everything the way we described above, the girls will write you themselves – you will have to try hard to get away from them!

If you decide to address the girl you’re interested in yourself, study her form carefully. Does she meet your wishes? Maybe she’s a smoker and it’s not acceptable for you at all? Maybe she’s got three kids and it doesn’t do for you? Religion? Education?

Girls also describe the man they are looking for in their forms. Check whether you match their wishes of age, interests, language, etc.

Searching for you darling is a sort of hard and important work too. Please, don’t be too lazy to do it right and the result will be evident pretty soon.

Scammers

Scamming is not just a monkey trick – scammers are real swindlers, real criminals. Unfortunately, we can’t guarantee that you will never come across a scammer online. Scammers are not always male students who use the picture of a girl to mislead people – most scammers are real beautiful ladies. They use their own photos; you can chat with them on the phone, etc. That’s why there is hardly any chance to find and uncover them – they behave the same as the honest members of the service do.

Nevertheless, following several easy rules will protect you from running the risk of suffering from their activity.

No matter how good your virtual relations are – it all may turn out to be an illusion anyway. The only one you can be confident of is the one that you know in person. Scammers need your money – so never, never ever transfer any money to a person that you haven’t met yet. Usually a scammer will ask for money to buy the plane ticket and get to you but he also can invent a million other reasons. Try to avoid direct money transfers to a person whom you don’t know really well. Russia is not as poor as one may think – if a person has got a computer and enough money to pay for the Internet, then he or she probably has enough to pay for the food and other essentials. Don’t believe those who complain about being totally broke.

If you want to help your honey nevertheless, look for her name in the Internet scam lists. It’s easy to do – just type her name, address, phone number, e-mail at some search engine (for instance, Google). Surf through the results carefully – maybe you’ll find out a lot of new things about her.

If you decide to send some money to your girlfriend anyway – insist on a bank transfer. Don’t send money via electronic transfer services (webmoney, paypal, e-passporte, e-gold, etc.), because they all provide full anonymity for their clients which serves as a perfect loophole for the swindler. Only bank transfer! Make sure that the transfer is addressed to a person with the name stated in the form and don’t forget to state the purpose of the transfer in the payment appendix.

Anyway, the best way to pass money is when you meet the lady in person or when you pass the required sum to a person whom you can trust 100%.

If you fall victim of a scammer, inform us first. We will do everything that’s needed, send her data to the Web scammer databases and inform the police about it. Unfortunately, we know that it’s almost impossible to hold the scammer accountable.

Your own watchfulness, rationality, and carefulness are the worst obstacles on a scammer’s way. Be careful and no swindler will want to mess with you.

Meeting each other

The moment when you meet your sweetheart is the most important and exciting. Your relations are no longer virtual; they become real. This event should be carefully planned and should go as smoothly as possible because the further development of the relations depends mostly on it.

Let’s scrutinize the basic matters to which you should pay as much attention as possible when you organize your meeting.

The meeting may take place either in your country or in the country of your beloved one. It’s up to you where you’d prefer to meet each other but you shouldn’t forget that you will have to deal with all the affairs including the financial ones. If you decide to go visit your honey yourself, you will have to pay for the trip, your stay, and a lot of other things. On the other hand, if you want to invite the girl to visit you, you will most probably have to help her make the visa, pay for her trip, and for her stay.

The easiest way is to entrust our company with the organization of everything. We will advise you on all the necessary matters, and will plan and carry out your meeting both in your home country and in the home country of your lady. We will take care of the hotel, visa, and entertainment. If you come to visit your girlfriend, we will be able to meet you at the airport and provide an escort if it will help you feel more confident and comfortable. If you invite the lady to your country, we will help her settle the problems with plane tickets and visa, and will escort her to the airport.

In case you want to organize everything yourself, let us give you some advice.

If you come to the home country of the lady, book a room in the hotel in advance. Ask the girl to meet you at the airport or request a guide from the hotel. It will be pretty easy to address a tour agency in your country and purchase a place in a group tour. In this case all problems with the visa, flight, and hotel reservations will be settled automatically.

If you invite the girl to visit you, a tour agency will be the best choice for her as well. They will book the plane tickets and a hotel suite, and make her a visa. The best way to pay for such services is the clearing. You will be able to make it straight from your country. Tell your sweetheart that the agents will be able to send the bill for the tour with a fax (in English and in the international format). Any tour agency can accept bank transfers. All you will have left to do is meet your girlfriend at the airport and enjoy the personal contact.

It all may seem a little difficult but there are no insoluble problems. We have a lot of experience in organizing the meetings and we can say that all of them have gone well. Don’t hesitate to ask us for our service or just for advice - we are always happy to help you because your personal happiness means a professional success for us!